Health Care in a Thailand International Hospital Versus Health Care in the USA: The only difference is the difference between night and day
I (Mark's Mom) once worked as an office nurse for Dr. Tom Masters in Springfield, Illinois. A better doctor never existed. We actually ran our appointments on time. He studied each medicine a new patient was on to determine if the patient benefited from it or not and made certain that each client from the governor and the CEOs whose physicals we did to our elderly nursing home clients and the guys in the jail he and I visited got what they needed and were well informed about their health status and needs. Occasionally, a new client would ask a question like: " Doctor, it wouldn't make any difference if I did "x" instead of the "y" you are suggesting, would it?" Doctor Masters would get a serious expression on his face and peer down at the client and say: "The only difference would be the difference between north and south." That expression comes to mind as I think about the care Mark received at Bumrungrad International Hospital in Bangkok compared to the care he is getting and will likely get at the VA hospital and the care reported to me by friends including nurse friends.

I have to ask "What has happened to nursing (as well as health care) in this country?" The Thai nurses seem 100% compassionate, caring, respectful and always ready to help you. Your IV monitor beeps and you don't have to ring a bell. The nurse or aide comes to fix it. Far too many American nurses give the impression they are way too busy to help anyone, even in situations where I see them chatting with each other and moving at a snail's pace. Recently, when Mark had waited way past his appointment time and been begging to lie down at the VA, a nurse implied he could not be in pain as his blood pressure was not up. Doesn't morphine and compazine lower blood pressure and isn't it possible other factors allow a patient to be in pain without elevated blood pressure? A while later , I asked the nurse if she could estimate how long before Mark would be seen. She said: "I think you can have too much information." Mark finally solved his need to lie down to get relief from pain in his chest due to tissue and bone damage from the chest wall tumor and 15 very recent radiation treatments. He went out into the hall and laid down on the floor. This action caused a flurry of activity and produced a place to lie down in the treatment room. His appointment was at 9 and he was told he must not report in later than 8:30 sharp. He saw the doctors at 12:30 and I must say the doctors were exceedingly respectful and compassionate as were some nurses in the treatment room. By the time Mark left the oncology clinic and waited in line at the pharmacy three times and waited until his number came up to wait in line, it was 4:30 when we left the VA: a long day for a very sick young man who still had to ride the 3 and a half hours back to Austin.

Other stories of nursing care in Austin Texas and elsewhere: After thyroid surgery in Austin, a friend reports that she rang the bell for pain medication. She could not talk above a whisper due to swelling from surgery. The person at the desk said: "Speak up. We can't help you if you don't speak up." No one was sent to check on the patient and pain medication was a long time in coming. Another nurse friend on vacation recently in Colorado had an occluded ureter and could not urinate and was in pain. She reported that the emergency room staff treated her as if she were a drug seeking addict. The nurse who catheterized her, took only a specimen and did not empty the bladder. When asked why she had not emptied the bladder since the patient was unable to urinate and was uncomfortable, the nurse offered to do another catheterization. There also seems to be a rash of people falling off of guerneys or being dropped in transfer from guerney to bed . The hospital staff often say they are way too busy and too overworked to help a patient especially with something like getting a tooth brush out for someone told not to get out of bed after surgery. I had this experience in an Austin Hospital. "Everyone is busy and can't help you." Why did I find this hard to believe when after asking for a hour for the tooth brush whenever someone came into the room, one nursing assistant who was too busy to help me, spent a long time telling me that she had bought a farm and all about the farm and then asked if she could have my potted plant if I didn't want it. A social worker wandered in eventually and got the tooth brushing equipment for me. How can nursing education and nursing texts and journals in the USA claim the nursing profession is still all about compassion, caring, thorough head to toe assessments, and holistic nursing when nurses and nurse's assistants today are "way too busy and overworked to listen to and attend to client's needs "? Today in the USA you never know if you will get a compassionate, caring, competent nurse or a Miss Rachet behave-alike from One Flew Over the CooCoo's Nest or something in between. What's your opinion? I invite comments/stories from anyone who agrees and from those who don't. Your thoughts are important!
PS FROM MARK - "So sorry that I can't answer e-mail right now. I am trying to get the pain under control and get some healing of my chest. When I am able, I will e-mail you all. Thanks for all your support. It means everything to me. " Mark

Hospice Austin. Mr.Mark is hopeful but he tries to be prepared. He had me call Hospice Austin to get information about care and we learned thatthrough this non-profit organization,Mark could receive care at no cost with a statement from an Austin Doctor that he has six months or less to live and is not on any curative path. He could be on chemo, not for cure, but for reducing tumors to decrease pain or distention, and/or make him more comfortable. While not ready for end of life care because he still has that fighting spirit and a little hope left, he has the information in case he reaches that point.
Story of a Hospice Client
When I used to take nursing students to a nursing home/convalescent center,I would assign one of them to Johnny (not his real name)who was on hospice and expected to die in six months or less. He'd be moaning and refusing to leave his bed. The nurses would tell us to be careful as he was fragile and really we probably ought to get a different patient. Within one or two days of being cared for by a pretty young lady, Johnny would get out of bed and start going to the dining hall and would try to teach the student some dance step or amuse her with a story. We would end our clinicals at the nursing home then I would return in six months or a year with a new group of student nurses and Johnny would still be there at deaths door. A pretty student nurse would once more perk Johnny up. Mark reminds me of Johnny. He may have cancer, but put a pretty nurse next to him or some fun thing to do and he is up and going. He is limiting his outings to one a day or two max, separated by rest, to conserve his strength, but he is still going strong and looks the picture of health.
August 21, 2006
Mr. Mark looks so good, we sometimes forget he has cancer and is sick. Mark needs to rest a lot. When he overexerts himself, he is in a good bit of pain. Today he was up all day and over did it and he is fighting pain tonight. Today, Mark and James set up City Navigator North America on the GPS and they are delighted to have the GPS identify all the restaurants and businesses in our area and exactly how to get to these places and to look at maps of Reno and Tahoe and California (We are all going to San Francisco on Sept 4 and we will drive to Reno and Tahoe. It could sound crazy to you that Mark is going on a vacation as sick as he is, but when your days are shortened by cancer, you don't want to spend all of that short time in waiting rooms and treatment. You try to do some things that are fun and special.
Mark and James went to Amy's Ice Cream and did a couple of easy Geocache treasure hunts with the GPS. Mark read the Austin Chronicle from cover to cover and talked about all the movies he would like to see, the live music happenings he would like to hear and all the restaurants he would like to eat in...in the end all he was up to was going over to Rudy's Bar-B-Que and getting take out brisket so tender we did not need a knife. We are trying to get Mark out to one or two Austin places each day and to see a few people while he is here...but we must remember his need to take it a little easier than today.